Male
Masturbation
It is a
well-known fact that men enjoy
masturbation and virtually all
men do it with some regularity.
There is no maximum or minimum
number of times a week you
should masturbate. Masturbation
is both physically and mentally
giving, as well as spiritually
fulfilling. There are no
negative side effects associated
with masturbating.
There are
many different ways to reach a
quality orgasm through
masturbation and there is no
'right' way. Try different
sensations out and see how you
like them. Some people enjoy the
feel of a full grip, some enjoy
using both hands, while others
only like to use their thumb and
a couple of fingers. Regardless
off your preference, lubricants
and vibrators are just a few
things to experiment with to
find out what you like.
In regards to
circumcised versus
uncircumcised, it is typically
easier to reach climax when you
are the latter. Although being
uncircumcised reduces friction
between the hand and the glands
head, it allows more flexibility
in the style and length of your
stroke.
Basic Stroke
Place one or
both hands around your erect
penis and stroke up and down
along the shaft. If you require,
use some water-based lubricant
to increase pleasure. Some men
enjoy encircling the head of the
penis with each stroke.
Slapping and
Beating
This
technique involves a steady
slapping of the penis back and
forth between two hands, against
the stomach, or against some
other object.
Sources of
Stimulation
When using
one hand to masturbate, or with
a partner, there is the
opportunity to receive other
forms of sexual stimulation at
the same time. Many men find it
pleasurable to fondle their
scrotum, gently rub the perineum
(area between scrotum and anus),
and having their nipples rubbed.
The anus is a
very sensitive location and
applying pressure to the anal
opening or gently inserting an
object inside can be quite
arousing. Many anal dildos,
better known as butt plugs, are
designed to target the prostate
gland, which is another source
of great pleasure that can only
be reached through the rectum.
A variety of
vibrators provide penile or anal
stimulation. Vibrating bullets,
vibrating sleeves, or spot
vibrators can all provide
intense stimulation to your
erogenous zones.
Penis pumps
have long been popular with men
as masturbation devices. A
generic penis pump consists of a
long cylinder that fits over the
penis and is attached via a tube
to a pump. The pump creates a
vacuum around the penis; in
doing so it pulls blood into the
area and temporarily enlarges
the penis, a feeling many men
find pleasurable. You should be
sure to follow the
recommendations for proper use
and avoid using it at high
pressure for longer than fifteen
minutes. Be sure to use ample
amounts of water-based lubricant
inside the cylinder, as well as
around the base of the penis. By
doing so you will ensure a tight
seal and thus better suction.
Attachments for the nipples are
available with some pumps.
Hand Job
Techniques
Hand jobs are
a great way to pleasure your
man. They can be used by
themselves, or while performing
oral sex on your partner. Below
is a listing of hand job
techniques, mostly gathered from
alt.sex.faq. Although not
necessary, it is better to
perform these using a lubricant.
Pressure
With one
hand, pull the shaft's skin
toward the base and wrap the
fingers of this hand around the
base to act as a cock ring.
Using the other hand,
rhythmically pick various points
along the shaft of the penis and
squeeze opposite sides of the
penile shaft at these points,
releasing pressure either
immediately or after only a
brief period of time.
Fire
Rub the penis
between both palms, as if
rubbing two sticks together to
create fire. Be sure to use
plenty of oil.
Glans Head
Massage
Hold the
penis in one hand with the head
sticking up. Using the
well-oiled palm of your other
hand, slowly and sensitively
massage the glans head. Reverse
directions every once in a
while.
Healing
Stroke
With the
penis resting on the man's
stomach, take one hand and cup
the testicles. Then glide the
heel of the palm of the other
hand up and down the underside
of the penis.
Twist and
Shout
Pull the skin
of the penis toward the base
with one hand. With the other
hand, corkscrew the penis. This
can be done with the thumb and
first finger or with your entire
grip.
Anvil Stroke
Start with
one hand lightly grasping the
top of the penis. Then stroke
the penis from the top, all the
way to the bottom. When you hit
the bottom, release the penis.
Meanwhile, bring your other hand
to the top of the penis and
repeat.
Bookends
Place both of
your hands side by side against
his shaft like a pair of
bookends. Now push hard against
his penis. Then lift your hands
up and down.
Doorknob
Turn the head
of his penis like you're trying
to open an oily doorknob. Now
try turning the other way.
Repeat. This stroke is sometimes
improved by using the other hand
to stretch the skin of the penis
toward the base.
Double Whammy
Bring your
well lubricated hands down on
his shaft. Some penises are so
big they require both hands; if
your partner's doesn't, then use
the other hand to caress and
lightly flutter his testicles,
or tighten around the base of
his shaft. If both hands fit
along the length of the shaft
then move them together, up and
down, in the typical pumping
motion. Pretend you're holding a
baseball bat and are about to
score a grand slam. You can also
vary the directions of your
hands: one up, one down at the
same time.
Milking
Start with
one hand lightly grasping the
bottom of the penis. Then stroke
the penis from the bottom all
the way to the top. When you hit
the top, release the penis.
Meanwhile, bring your other hand
to the bottom of the penis and
repeat.
Perpetual
Penetration
Start with
one hand lightly grasping the
top of the penis. Then stroke
the penis from the top all the
way to the bottom, letting his
penis "penetrate" into your fist
on each stroke. Before the head
of his penis pops out of your
hand, bring the other hand up
for the next penetration. This
way it seems to him like he is
penetrating deeper and deeper
into an infinite vagina. Make
sure you keep the penetration
continuous.
Ring
Make a ring
with your thumb and forefinger
and pump up and down with it.
When you get to the top close
the ring. Then make him squeeze
his way in as you slide back
down to the bottom.
Shaft
Stroke only
his shaft, ignoring his glans
head. You will notice his glans
head swelling and turning red.
When it's bright red, use
Doorknob, Glans Head Massage, or
Perpetual Penetration.
Shuttle Penis
Take the
penis in both hands, fingers
lightly touching the sides of
the shaft. Now flick the penis
back and forth between your two
hands by holding onto the loose
skin of the shaft. Do this
stroke for a while to allow
tension to build.
Spot Pinch
Lightly and slowly run a finger
up the underside of his penis.
Ask him to tell you where the
most sensitive spot is.
Pinch, squeeze, nibble and tease
that spot. |